Whose a better lover, Men or Women?

[Foxfire]

It doesn't matter if your straight, gay, or bi, most of us know whether we "have it going on" or "need a little help in the bedroom." Either way, we as human beings know what we want out of a life (well some people do). But my question to each of you is....whose better at love making? Is it the man or the woman? And WHY do you feel that gender is better? ;) :vamp:

[DonDaddyD]

I really don't know what your asking here :shrug:.

Ultimately being good in bed has got to depend on the position and the individual, some people prefer and work harder in different position as well as some not liking or being unable to perform other positions. In other words not all people can bring their ankles up to their ears or even take doggy. :sure:

I honestly couldn't tell you if a man is better than a women in bed as I don't rate myself and have no intention of 'trying out' men. My only concern is that the persons experience with me is enjoyable, whether it's rough or gentle :whistle:.

I always say that 'your only as good as the person your with!'

[Foxfire]

My apologies, lol, let me try to be more clear. :p :angel: What I'm asking is between the battle of the sexes, Men and Women who are more opt to be better lovers, not who you sleep with.

Kind of like whose smarter, Men or Women. The same applies here, whose better Men or Women. I think that made sense. :femm:

[DonDaddyD]

I really don't know!

But I might add that there are some women out there that are DAMN LAZY! Sure I can understand the need for a MAN to pin you down and hammer-time but a little movement or effort wouldn't go amiss. Yet I still say it can't come down to a specific gender being better as much as it is working together.

As I said before I always say that 'your only as good as the person your with!'

Why don't you give us your views firefox?

[ZorCrow]

MEN, because without us you can't get anything done right. Seriously, women are like dynamite, it takes the right man to make them . . . EXPLODE!!! I know guys that have women by the dozens, I know no woman that has men by the dozens (unless they are a hooker/stripper/porn skank).

[Jill Monroe]

I really don't know!

But I might add that there are some women out there that are DAMN LAZY! Sure I can understand the need for a MAN to pin you down and hammer-time but a little movement or effort wouldn't go amiss. Yet I still say it can't come down to a specific gender being better as much as it is working together.

As I said before I always say that 'your only as good as the person your with!'

Why don't you give us your views firefox?

and there are some MEN out there that CANT "get it up" to save their LIFE :haha:

honestly, i think it DOES depend on who your with. Some men (and some women) are so fluent, voracious lovers that you want to let them sweep you away...while OTHERS may be better suited to being "controlled" (if they are with ME thats how it HAS to be lol..I'm the boss). For me, i KNOW that while i may be dominant, there is nothing i wont do to ensure my man's happiness and pleasure. SO after saying that, while i do think it depends on who your with..i tend to think that women by nature would make better lovers (to men OR women).


And Zorcrow? honey PUHLEASE :rolleyes: there aint nothing you can do that a TOY couldnt replicate. :haha: :p

[Angels baby101]

And Zorcrow? honey PUHLEASE :rolleyes: there aint nothing you can do that a TOY couldnt replicate. :haha: :p

Aint that the truth!?

Truthfully i cant tell you who is better, As it varies from person to person. I must give men the benefit of the doubt as they do work hard at being the best although I think they do that one for themselves :P where as most women i know do it for both of them so really i say they tie at the trying hard. :shrug:

[DonDaddyD]

Well I ask this to all the women on the board, how does a woman know that she's good in bed. It's pretty damn easy to turn a man on and get him off. Technically all a women has to do is lay there it's all the same to a man it's gonna happen for him because he is going to work it for himself. Whereas men have to try and be good, it is distinct and clear how a man has to be good in bed. After thinking this through I reckon men are better lovers because they have to try harder to be a better lover.

[ZorCrow]

And Zorcrow? honey PUHLEASE :rolleyes: there aint nothing you can do that a TOY couldnt replicate. :haha: :p

Tough talk Spellbinder, that is why there are male giagolos right?
That is why I know 4 guys who have had sex with over 100 women each right? (that's too many women by the way:igitt:) Women can get a "toy" but it ain't a man. It's like a guy with porn, no matter whether you are watching it in HDTV big screen or on some video game, it isn't the real thing, ain't nothing likle real to real human contact flesh. No virtual sex, no sex toys, no nothing can and will ever replace that.

I've seen it, I've seen women get addicted to men, my man-whore friends tell me of having sex with married women in their husbands beds, having sex with them while on the phone with their husband, taking money from their husbands and giving it to them. . . men just have it over women, we just have it over you, we are better lovers and better at "Physical action" than a woman.

Jack Johnson the first black heavyweight champion had sex with 8 women in one night, and they still couldn't handle him (he got in trouble for dating/marrying white women).

Please Spell you and women talk all that junk, but when a woman is getting good loving, she will forget friends, forget everything else and become that man's servant.

[Timeless Beautie]

Uh oh... all hell just broke loose....

The thing about it is that women can use sex as a weapon and are much more controlled then men. It has been proven over and over it is more acceptable for a woman to be a virgin, then it is for a man. Anyways women can sometimes better then men. It all depends on experience I think.

[Shadowsfall]

We all know Heath thinks women are better in bed :)

I think women are better in bed too though, but that's speaking from my own experiences.

[FtpIt]

and there are some MEN out there that CANT "get it up" to save their LIFE :haha:

honestly, i think it DOES depend on who your with. Some men (and some women) are so fluent, voracious lovers that you want to let them sweep you away...while OTHERS may be better suited to being "controlled" (if they are with ME thats how it HAS to be lol..I'm the boss). For me, i KNOW that while i may be dominant, there is nothing i wont do to ensure my man's happiness and pleasure. SO after saying that, while i do think it depends on who your with..i tend to think that women by nature would make better lovers (to men OR women).


And Zorcrow? honey PUHLEASE :rolleyes: there aint nothing you can do that a TOY couldnt replicate. :haha: :p

Oh really now...I'm going to keep you to that statement Miss ;) I think women make better lovers because they are more sensual.

[Osiris]

Men are....duh?:shrug:


At least I am.;)

[Jill Monroe]

Oh really now...I'm going to keep you to that statement Miss ;)

your going to "keep me to that statement"?:sure:

and what happened when you woke up?:rolleyes:



men are often inhibited about what they will do when it comes to sex and intimacy. they are too hung up on their masculine macho fallacies in order to branch out and try new things. women are innately more comfortable with sexuality and that is why for ages and ages, men have tried to stifle women and their sexual identity AND why women like MADONNA played a pivotal role in women fighting back against double standards in sexuality.

[Osiris]

men are often inhibited about what they will do when it comes to sex and intimacy. they are too hung up on their masculine macho fallacies in order to branch out and try new things. women are innately more comfortable with sexuality and that is why for ages and ages, men have tried to stifle women and their sexual identity AND why women like MADONNA played a pivotal role in women fighting back against double standards in sexuality.

That is a very broad statement. Women are just as inhibited as well. Women tend to be very insecure when it comes to sex, like how their bodies look, what will men think if they do certain things, etc.

Men are hardly ever insecure in the bedroom, unless they have reason to be.:laugh:

Those of us who can perform and are not insecure about our bodies, you know the only part men care about....are very content and able to please.

But, then again, Im generalizing as well....

[Foxfire]

That is a very broad statement. Women are just as inhibited as well. Women tend to be very insecure when it comes to sex, like how their bodies look, what will men think if they do certain things, etc.

Men are hardly ever insecure in the bedroom, unless they have reason to be.:laugh:

Those of us who can perform and are not insecure about our bodies, you know the only part men care about....are very content and able to please.

But, then again, Im generalizing as well....

Good argument Osiris but some men are just as insecure on the size of their penis. I have a male friend who was afraid to have sex with his girlfriend because he thought she would "rate" the size of his manhood. :shrug:


However, women also can be insecure as you brought up. ;) But I don't feel every woman is like that. Take Farrah for example, she's a confident young woman who knows what she wants and what she dislikes. I myself am the same way, minus the dominant feature. :femm2: :D

I know some men are fabulous lover's while others cannot even get to having sex because they become too excited and end up "bursting on the scene." LOL! And then there are those guys who feel they are "huge" but when you see it, its "three inches long, erect."

I do know men who are smooth, romantic, loving in the bedroom who aim to please. And I know there are some amazing male lover's out there. I'm sure the gentlemen who replied on here are.

I guess to me women are more sensual, they are more eager to please, and they spend more time lovemaking then some of their male lover's. Women in my opinion spend more time giving a guy oral sex then what he'll do for her. (Again, I'm not saying ALL men, just some). Most men usually last ten to fifteen minutes or otherwise half an hour love making, the four play is probably five to ten minutes. :(

[FtpIt]

your going to "keep me to that statement"?:sure:

and what happened when you woke up?:rolleyes:



men are often inhibited about what they will do when it comes to sex and intimacy. they are too hung up on their masculine macho fallacies in order to branch out and try new things. women are innately more comfortable with sexuality and that is why for ages and ages, men have tried to stifle women and their sexual identity AND why women like MADONNA played a pivotal role in women fighting back against double standards in sexuality.

uhhhh, loosen your tight panties for a second Miss...most women are not comfortable with their sexuality because they are always obsessed
with how their bodies look..."I'm I fat?"..."I need to get bigger boobs" :rolleyes:

[Osiris]

Good argument Osiris but some men are just as insecure on the size of their penis. I have a male friend who was afraid to have sex with his girlfriend because he thought she would "rate" the size of his manhood. :shrug:


However, women also can be insecure as you brought up. ;) But I don't feel every woman is like that. Take Farrah for example, she's a confident young woman who knows what she wants and what she dislikes. I myself am the same way, minus the dominant feature. :femm2: :D

I know some men are fabulous lover's while others cannot even get to having sex because they become too excited and end up "bursting on the scene." LOL! And then there are those guys who feel they are "huge" but when you see it, its "three inches long, erect."

I do know men who are smooth, romantic, loving in the bedroom who aim to please. And I know there are some amazing male lover's out there. I'm sure the gentlemen who replied on here are.

I guess to me women are more sensual, they are more eager to please, and they spend more time lovemaking then some of their male lover's. Women in my opinion spend more time giving a guy oral sex then what he'll do for her. (Again, I'm not saying ALL men, just some). Most men usually last ten to fifteen minutes or otherwise half an hour love making, the four play is probably five to ten minutes. :(

Well that's because, it takes women so long to orgasm! Lets be real here, some guys burst just from a slight or wayward breeze! Women require some real work! Men like myself are patient enough to wait it out. So I guess in that department women definitely have the advantage.

Your right most men are obsessed with their penis, however thats like the only body part, women on the other hand.......

Personally I would rather not have a penis if it was only 3 inches...I feel sorry for your friend, but more so from the cursed man.

Most men with a good size penis, are not insecure in the bedroom, for those who are not insecure but don't last long or arenot pleasing, they are just lazy.

OK Im rambling, but in the end, I think its a tie, there are pro's and con's between the sexes.

[DonDaddyD]

Personally I would rather not have a penis if it was only 3 inches...I feel sorry for your friend, but more so from the cursed man.

Most men with a good size penis, are not insecure in the bedroom, for those who are not insecure but don't last long or arenot pleasing, they are just lazy.


Question what is a good penis size? Surely it is something that cannot be justified as it all depends on how a Man works it, like his technique and so forth. The same goes for Women and their bodies I coudln't tell you what size breasts I like there are too many variables like nipples and the size of the shit around the nipples (the name of which, I have forgotten again).

I really don't think generalizing 'equipment' can be a good argument for who are better Men or Women as we all have different 'tools' to work with. For me this comes down to what gender works harder and I'm going with Men as I said before Women can lie there and do nothing and a Man is still going to cum. Whereas to get a women of men have to work really really hard at times! This willingness to work in my eyes makes men the better lovers in general because that is how we deem good lovers individually.

For me women tend to have too many insecurities and personal taboos about being good lovers to actually be good lovers. Granted some women don't and are very sexually liberated but the majority have. Therefore as a whole Women are less effective in the bedroom than men.

I see it as this when I say I'll do anything to a women to please her in the bedroom (as long as it is Hygenic) then I mean ANYTHING for as long as physically possible. From experience and from others experience that I have heard when a Women says this anything this often means 'only somethings'!

[Osiris]

Question what is a good penis size? Surely it is something that cannot be justified as it all depends on how a Man works it, like his technique and so forth. The same goes for Women and their bodies I coudln't tell you what size breasts I like there are too many variables like nipples and the size of the shit around the nipples (the name of which, I have forgotten again).

I really don't think generalizing 'equipment' can be a good argument for who are better Men or Women as we all have different 'tools' to work with. For me this comes down to what gender works harder and I'm going with Men as I said before Women can lie there and do nothing and a Man is still going to cum. Whereas to get a women of men have to work really really hard at times! This willingness to work in my eyes makes men the better lovers in general because that is how we deem good lovers individually.

For me women tend to have too many insecurities and personal taboos about being good lovers to actually be good lovers. Granted some women don't and are very sexually liberated but the majority have. Therefore as a whole Women are less effective in the bedroom than men.

I see it as this when I say I'll do anything to a women to please her in the bedroom (as long as it is Hygenic) then I mean ANYTHING for as long as physically possible. From experience and from others experience that I have heard when a Women says this anything this often means 'only somethings'!

Personally, I don't know what a good penis size is, but from what I hear from women it has to be above 6 inches. Large is above 9 I think. Then theres thickness.....why am I talking about penises?:sneak: