Sex with the Ex

[Nix]

Ok so how many of you have ever had sex with an ex partner? Was it good or bad? Did you feel guilty after? How long had you been seperated before you had sex with them?

[Angels baby101]

I have done this at least twice before that comes to mind, both times i'd been broken up with the guy for at least a year if not more, and it was one of those things that kinda just happens. See I try to stay friends with most of my ex's since we were friends before we got together. With Both guys in question I'd lost contact with them for a while and with My ex Robert we met up again when i went through his line at his then job at a grocery store and gave him my number we hung out a bit then one night he came to my house and it just happened. With my other ex Will we connected online again after a few years and after i'd moved 5 hrs away, he started to visit a few times and one day he came back to the house and we were alone and got to talking of old times and it just happened lol. With both guys i felt guilty, but for seperate reasons. With Robert it was because I had just got out of a relationship with a guy who hurt me very badly and I used sex as a way to feel something again which didn't really work out well. With Will it was because even with our relationship in the past I'd never felt fully the way he'd felt about me, and after we had sex all those feelings came up for him again and he wanted a relationship while I didn't feel anywhere near what he felt there was still no spark even though he was a great guy.

I honestly dont think there is anything wrong with getting back with your ex as long as there wasnt a major reason for the breakup- IE he beat you, threatened your family etc. with both of those ex's it was mainly just me being young and they being older and just small differences were we needed to grow as people. I still talk to both of them on a regular basis so *shrugs*

[Flashforward]

Most of my relationships have ended on bad terms, so this was never really an option. Although if the opportunity had presented itself, I probably would have declined anyway. There's a reason why they're exs.

[LizzieRainbow]

Well i have to say i have done a lot of things in my time but i have never had sex with the ex. As soon as im no longer with a guy i have never bothered to go back to him, not even just for a one night stand!

[Jacob Black]

I'm not going to lie, i've done it and quite a bit. My last big relationship lasted for 3 1/2 years, I mean we lived together, worked together once and we were engaged, but he was a low down dirty cheater haha, so it ended.

But for a long time, whenever I wanted some I just went to him because it was easy, and I didn't want to.. "add" to my number.

It probably wasn't the best idea but I did it anyway. There's something to be said for sexual chemistry.

Looking back I don't know if I would do it again, but there is something about sex with the ex that is just HOT, it always seems to be better than if you were actually still with the person, don't ask me why, it just does.